21 Questions To Ask A Any GuyOver A Drink

Questions, questions and more questions! They are the most amazingly simple thing that we can ask when we are on a first date with someone. You just have to be careful not to overdo it and turn it into an interview! Questions are the best way to get to know someone and show them we are interested in them. On a first date you just have to be careful not to overdo it and turn it into an interview!

Dale Carnegie in his mega-best-selling book “How to win friends and influence people” writes about the power of asking good questions to show that we are interested in connecting with someone else.

Have you ever been to a party and you’ve been the one asking the questions and doing most of the listening? If you have you will probably agree that the other person thought that the conversation was quite interesting – funny that! You probably did less that twenty percent of the speaking but you got 100% of the credit!

If you ‘re a guy and ask some great questions, you will often find yourself leaping to last-base, thus saving yourself a lot of legwork trying to build rapport with her. Asking questions and listening is one of the most naturally flattering things you can do to anyone.

If you’re a woman and want to stroke a guy’s ego and make him feel super good and wanted, then just ask him lots of questions and then really listen to the answers. You will have the guy on a dangling string in seconds!

Despite the ego-stroking that can happen, if you are genuine, you will always win someone over quickly. They will feel your genuine interest and respond. Because people who’re genuinely interested in someone else, are the people who are usually popular and well liked. Faking interest is the worst thing you can do. And at the end of the day, if you are not a natural listener then put yourself to the test and practice. You will start to learn SO much about so many things and you will discover parts of people that are just SO interesting to learn about.

Here’s 21 questions to ask to get conversation moving. They have been written from a female perspective, just switch them around if you are a guy and want to use them. If nothing else it will get you thinking about your own questions – which are always better.

Here are 21 questions to ask a guy or a girl

1. If you are working as a waiter and one of your customers was really rude, would you spit in their soup or even think to do this?

2. What was your favourite Halloween dress up costume as a child and why?

3. If you had the chance to choose 5 people to invite to dinner – real of fictional – who would you invite and why?

4. If in an instant you could become an invisible man, where would you go and what would you do?

5. If someone was to make a comedy movie about just one part of your life, which part would they script and what would be written?

6, What was your favourite television character when you were a child? What did you like about them?

7. What do you regret the most in your life?

8. What’s the most way-out experience you have had in your whole life?

9. Have you ever gone on a date with someone who is so much smaller or taller than you, and if so how did you get on kissing?

10. How old were you when you had your first proper date and did you kiss them?

11. What was the worst lie you have ever told in your life? Did you get caught out?

12. If you instantly turned into a woman just for a day, what would you do with your day and why?

13. If you do not like someone do you show it or pretend that you like them?

14. What is more important to you in a woman – good looks or intelligence?

Time to get a little more personal!

15. Have you ever been caught with your pants down in a public place – if so what were you doing?

16. What’s the difference between having sex and making love for you and which do you prefer?

17. If you could suddenly change the age you lost your virginity, would you?

18. What turns you on the most?

19. Have you ever cheated on your partner? Did they ever find out? If so, what happened?

20. Has anyone ever caught you touching yourself sexually? If they did what did you do and who was it?

21. Have you ever been to an orgy with more than two other people? If so did you have sex or just watch?