Overcoming Thundering Club Music

Many people find themselves having trouble communicating over the loud, repetitive sounds of the night club. If you’re not used to the noise it can be hard to think, let alone communicate!

The following exercise is a great way to overcome the rough and loud challenges that a club presents.

Level 1: Get Comfortable in the Noise

First you’ll need a stereo that can really blast some music (the stereo in your car will work for the Level 1 exercise.) Put on something loud, anything from bumping club music to grinding death metal will do. Blast the music. Stand about 10 ft away from a friend and simply talk about anything for 5 to 10 minutes.

Get comfortable with thinking and speaking over loud music. It doesn’t matter at this point if the other person understands what you are saying. What matters is that you can keep on track and tell a story all the way through, over the music.

Once you have become more comfortable around loud music, it will be time to move on to step 2.

Level 2: Storytelling and Listening

Find a person you can team up with for this exercise. Write down, find, or memorize a story that your partner has never heard before. Tell your partner to stand a few feet away from you, while you tell them the story. Remember to turn on the music, to simulate the club atmosphere.

Once the storyteller is finished telling his tale, turn the music down. Now, the listener will explain what he believes the story was all about. If his version of the story is way off, then the storyteller needs to change how he expresses his story.

The important thing to remember from this exercise is, did your partner understand you and were they interested in what you had to say. The ability to start a deep conversation in a loud club, can be achieved, but only through time and practice. Ask your partner for advice about you story, body language, voice volume, and facial expressions.

There are two lessons for this exercise. The first lesson is how to communicate an entire story to a group of people in a loud night club so that the listeners get the point.

The second lesson is how to listen to and interpret a story in a loud environment. This is especially important when a girl is telling you a story. The more you can hear, the better your response could be.

Stay away from “pecking.” This is wear a guy whose interested in a girl, will lean in uncomfortably close to her, in order to speak to her. Practice talking to yourself in a mirror, and take notes on what you can do to improve you body posture.

Being aware that repeatedly leaning in and invading a women’s space, looks bad and conveys lower value to everyone else in the room.

Its up to you to master these exercises. Take you time and remember that practice makes perfect. With enough practice anything is possible.

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