May
22
What should I do if my date asks about my dating history?
ByI’ve dated 15 women. Most said no after date 1 and the rest said no after date 2. No kisses ever and of course so sex ever. I’m a 36 year old male virgin.
I sometimes just want to blurt all this out, but of course I don’t. However it’s on my mind every date and makes me extremely nervous that the question about my dating history will come up.
3 Comments
May 22nd, 2011 at 10:27 am
You can be honest without being too honest.
Don’t lie and tell her that your a Casanova but don’t hide who you really are.
Honesty is super important.
A simple way to put it is that you haven’t been so lucky in dating and leave it at that.
May 22nd, 2011 at 11:04 am
don’t keep it from her be straight up if she judged for who you had been and not for what you are now then she doesn’t deserve a guy like you. if you really love her i can see with you but you are Still young as they say now a days there are a lot of fish left in the sea.
May 22nd, 2011 at 11:38 am
wow first of all 36 years without sex? That’s a long time, But have you thought about going to another country? Thailand, the Philippines, Russia etc? If you are having bad luck in your local area, look somewhere else. If a bird doesn’t see any worms, does he/she just sit there all its life waiting? or does he/she fly around until it sees a worm out of the ground?
I can understand your nervousness, 36 years is a long time and you don’t want to screw up whatever chance you get. Whatever she asks be honest about it, and tell her everything but dint go into detail. Just say Ive had several dates previously, but we ended up being friends. Also if you can remember something funny that happened on one particular date tell her. make her laugh. that will make her more comfortable with you. And honestly If you are with her for more than an hour, tell her you are still a virgin. That will show her you trust her and she will respect that, if she is a decent lady. Also she will think to herself “wow I can be his first.”
Also to relieve your nervousness, take a couple shots of whisky, rum, bourbon etc before your date so that it calms your nerves and you relax more. One or two will do the trick, but don’t take too much obviously. You don’t want to pass out halfway through dinner right?